I think there should be a Match.com like section of Stupidcancer.com dedicated to singles who had/ have cancer and are searching for relationships. I might be the only one who thinks this , but I find it pretty harder to approach women who hasn't been through a tramatic experience like cancer, etc and ask her out. In my case I had brain cancer when I was 14. I had brain surgery, a harsh regime of chemo thearpy, and a month and a half of radiation. The reprecussions of that can/ and did have a significant impact on my self-confidence. I am 26 now. Hopefully, I'm not the only one who feels like this or I'll feel really weird putting this out.