I found out that I had cancer back in May of 2012. When my boyfriend of two and a half years found out he shut down on me. Everything changed. I was in and out of the hospital all summer long for surgeries and doctor appointments. As the days went by he would drift away from me and become cold. I found out that when he was ten his grandmother died from cancer and that got me thinking. Maybe that's why he is acting the way he is. But things got worse between us. Over time his mom started acting worse towards me and damned that I clean her house when I lived with them. She would leave a huge mess for me to clean and would cry to her husband if I didn't clean it.
His dad began to call me a two-faced lair when we discovered their animals had fleas. So come to find out the doctors don't want me to stay in the house because I could become sick from the fleas. So I moved back home and things just got worse between the boyfriend and I. I asked him if we could find our own place and he said okay because he doesn't want me to get sick.
But now he has changed his mind about moving out. He wants to live with his parents until the fall and than move out. Catch is he is demanding that I move back in because he doesn't like the idea that the doctors told me I could get sick from the fleas. I'm going through chemo right now.
I just don't know what to think anymore about this. Why move back somewhere where I can get even sicker? But I love being with him and don't want to break up.