Young adult - 29 year old diagnosed with stage 4 NSCLC - HELP!!!

Hi - the lung cancer forum seems to be a pretty lonely place - so I will post this in newly diagnosed as well:

My brother just turned 29 and was diagnosed with stage 4 non-small cell lung cancer (adenocarcinoma) that has spread to his spine. We found out completely out of the blue when his T4 vertebrae fractured. We live in NYC and I am looking for a buddy for him: someone who has been through this or is going through it who can talk to him. Please message me back if there is anyone out there!