I just had a allogeneic bone marrow transplant about a month ago, and have a few months to go before I'm "in the clear"... but what goes thru my head way too often is the thought of having a girlfriend, or someone to spend my time with. I feel like I shouldn't be feeling like this, that I should focus on getting better. And who would want someone sick like me, a constant burden back and forth to the hospital for the past 4 years. But I'm 28, I have no kids, and can't now because of all I've been thru I'm sterile. So I think who would want me, but at the same time I think, isn't it too soon for me to even be asking that question?