I've been reading these posts and it looks like there is no specific time to tell the person you're dating that you have cancer. So a little about myself, I am a 28 year old male brain cancer survivor. I am 1 year out of treatment, which included surgery, chemo and radiation. My girlfriend and I recently broke up, which probably did have a little to do with my health, and now I am thinking of the issues Im going to have when dating. I was with this girl for close to 10 years so I have very little dating experience. Here are my questions, how long until you tell someone you have cancer? Please give me your opinions here, are we talking maybe 2 or 3 dates or when you become more serious? I look at it both ways, tell them early so you don't feel your lieing or wait til you're serious so there not scared away. Seems to be a lesser of two evils.. Now I do have a scar on the right side of my head but it's not very obvious with my hair so I feel most people that do not know already can't tell. I exercise and look like your average 28 year old. So please give me all your opinions or past experiences with dating issues I may run into.