I have been dealing with cancer for the past 3 years and I have had NHL twice and recently HL. My 40yr old aunt died after 6yrs of brain cancer and it was painful to watch her body start to fail her so I don't really post photos or let people I don't know real well see me because I don't wan't to be seen and known that way. With that said I have started to get upset when people tell me I don't look sick. It's like they don't think I'm suffering or that my life is in danger because I don't look like shit. I'm thinking someone needs to create a what not to say to a young adult with cancer. I have also started to resent the phrase "you're young you will beat this." After a certain point even if I do beat it I have to deal with the fact that my body and my life will never be the same. My health is more at risk and I have to deal with an uncertain future.