We are very private people and have never been all about talking about SEX. I have to ask the question, have you all ever encountered the CAN YOU STILL HAVE SEX QUESTION? I tried going out with friends for the first time in a very long time thinking it might be fun and I needed to get out and WHY people brought up Ben and asked me about him. I was honest and told him how he was that day. And then they jokiningly...asked about him and asked if he could still have sex? I was appauled. In front of many people I didn't know too. I was like that is private...dont' ya think a little rude? And then I'm like my husband had brain surgery, radiation, has seizures, and takes so many f'n meds NO things are not the same.
We are going through a very difficult time and how do I help my husband, 32 deal with everything he's lost? I'm feeling pretty lost. I get how important sex is to men, and my husband is no different. He's very depressed.