My daughter now almost 9 has been open and talked about her dad's illness from the beginning. More so now though. She does see counselors and a group also. Which I think helps. She most recently has become glued to her dad, constantly on him. Normal I think. But she tells me she's afraid all the time he's going to die and how will life be then? She also pretty much takes her anger out on me. Daily. Which we are working on. But here lately she has been telling us both that she feels like things are always about Ben. I feel bad. I know it's true. I have here and there done things with her. I try to do more...we used to go and now we don't. So doing things around the house more. I hope with the warmer weather we will get back to bike riding but anyways...in between the preteen angst and all the worries how do I make sure she knows how important she is to me/us? Being an only child she is used to having my undivided attention and now I am more focused on Ben. But with time I'm learning how to deal with it all more. For now until something else changes. I feel pulled in so many directions.