I don't know if this is the right forum to post this, but i dont know which other category it fits into.
I have read lots of accounts of relationships ending over diagnosis and treatment. I need to know the warning signs...things are not going very well for me and my husband lately and i am worried that it is going to get to the point where we/i just give up. We are fighting more and more and are having a hard time communicating. That was always our best relationship attribute, our awesome communication. Now he feels like everytime i try and explain my feelings i am attacking him and i feel like he just doesn't want to take the time or energy to care. I know i am more emotionally needy lately, but can you blame me? My life was turned more than upside down and put on a timer that could go "ding" at any time. And to boot, i was left with the emptional maturity of a teenager. NOT fun going thru this crap again i assure you. If you think the insecurities of an adult are bad, try dealing with the insecurities of an adult teenager who knows better but just can't seem to get a grip!!!! So, what do i do? We are not working anymore. If it was just us, i could walk away and never look back, but there are kids involved and that just makes it so much more important that we work this out.
argh!!!! can someone who has dealt with this please give me a little insight?