cancer has taken away the ability for my boyfriend and i to have kids, it has taken away his spirit, its taken away sex (probably forever), its literally taken him away cause he had to move to be closer to a better treatment facility, it has taken the past year of our life away. i think everyday what it has done to us but i don't always think of what it hasn't taken away.... it hasn't taken our love away. we have gotten closer over this past year, even if he lives 15 states away. its made me look at life completely different and i never want to take him for granted anymore. sometimes we want a pitty party, i know i have for sure, but we don't always look at the upsides of things. i mean how can we, its fricken cancer and it sucks but i think from now on its not what it has taken but what we have now and the future we have together.